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对于人性，多做理解，少做判断，更不要去看高或是贬低。很多你自以为挺好的关系，其实也就那样吧。

For human nature, do more understanding, make less judgment, and don't look high or low. A lot of relationships you think are good, but they are just like that.

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选择任何一种生活方式，都有得有失。所以，不用羡慕什么，也不用抱怨什么。你所能做的，只是保持身体和内心的平衡。

Choose any kind of lifestyle, there are gains and losses. So, don't envy or complain. All you can do is keep the balance between body and heart.

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人人都希望失去的东西能再回来，可是即使回来了，大概也不是最初的样子。

Everyone hopes that the lost things will come back again, but even if they come back, they are probably not the original ones.

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你焦虑的根本原因：能力不足，梦想又多，无非是贪心；愿意付出，又不肯拼，无非是妄念；反复纠结，过于矫情，无非是软弱。

The root cause of your anxiety: lack of ability and many dreams, nothing more than greed; Willing to pay, but not willing to fight, is nothing more than mourning; Repeated entanglement, too melodramatic, is nothing more than weakness.

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这个世界上你认识那么多的人。那么多人和你有关，你再怎么改变也不能让每个人都喜欢你，所以还不如做一个自己想做的人。

You know so many people in this world. So many people are related to you, no matter how you change, you can't make everyone like you, so it's better to be the person you want to be.

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眼睛 不要用来为伤害你的人哭泣，而要用来寻找那个正确的人。人世间并不缺好人，缺的是对你好的人 ？

Don't use your eyes to cry for those who hurt you, but use them to find the right person. There is no shortage of good people in the world, but of people who are good to you?

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我们总是像智者一样去劝慰别人，却像傻子一样折磨自己，不要埋怨别人让你失望，很多时候，跟自己过不去的是自己。

We always comfort others like wise men, but torture ourselves like fools. Don't blame others for disappointing you. Most of the time, it is ourselves who can't get along with ourselves.

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当你成功的时候，你说什么就是什么；当你失败的时候，你算什么？世界就是那么的现实残忍，你有时间抱怨倒不如多学习。

When you succeed, what you say is what you say; When you fail, what are you? The world is so cruel, you might as well study more when you have time to complain.

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人生无尽的悲欢离合，不过是不同的心路。有遇见，就有分别；有惊喜，就有遗憾。与其抱怨，不如祝愿。

Endless joys and sorrows in life are just different ways of thinking. If you meet, there will be differences; There are surprises, there are regrets. Better wish than complain.

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天空不总是晴朗，阳光也不总是闪耀。很多事情，当经历过，自己知道就好，很多改变，不需要说出来的，自己明白就好。

The sky is not always clear and the sun is not always shining. Many things, when experienced, it is good to know, many changes, do not need to be said, it is good to understand.

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成年人，就是“从事着自己不再有激情的行业，赚着一份可以养活两人以上的收入，时刻想逃离现有生活却无能为力”的一种生物。

Adult is a kind of creature who "is engaged in an industry where he no longer has passion, earns an income that can support more than two people, and always wants to escape from the existing life but can't do anything about it".