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这辈子，和谁过、怎样过、过多久，有人因为爱情、有人因为物质、有人因为容貌、有人因为前途、有人因为压力……而当这日子真的要和选择的人一起过了，你才明白：钱够花就好，容貌不吓人就行。其实真正的幸福很简单：只要笑容比眼泪多，你就找对人了。

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你要生活得随意些，你就只能活得平凡些；你要活得辉煌些，你就只能活得痛苦和复杂些；你要活得长久些，你就只能活得简单些。身先才能率人，律己才能服人。高谈者未必有高见，沉默时也许在沉思。

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人生的旅途，我们终无法将所有的风景尽收眼底，有些守候在时光里风干成记忆，曾经受过的伤已是寻常；曾经动过的情已记心房；曾经相识过的人，是否还是旧模样？时光如水，总是无言，若你安好，便是晴天。

On the journey of life, we can't get a panoramic view of all the scenery, and some of them are waiting to be dried into memories in time, and the injuries they have suffered are common; The feelings that have been moved have been remembered in the atrium; Are the people who have known each other still the same? Time is like water, always silent. If you are well, it will be sunny.

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没有人在意你失去了什么，没有人关心你的不快乐，这个世界不会为了任何人停下前进的步伐，心酸就哭，累了就睡，撒不出气来就去大吃大喝，越是没人爱，就越是要好好爱自己。

No one cares what you have lost, no one cares about your unhappiness, and the world will not stop moving forward for anyone, crying when you are sad, sleeping when you are tired, and eating and drinking when you can't breathe. The more unloved you are, the more you should love yourself.

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生活不是用来妥协的，你退缩得越多，能让你喘息的空间就越有限。日子不是用来将就的，你表现得越卑微，一些幸福的东西就会离你越远。

Life is not for compromise. The more you retreat, the more limited your breathing space will be. Life is not for living. The more humble you are, the farther away some happy things will be.