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21、拼命对一个人好，生怕做错一点对方就不喜欢你，这不是爱，而是取悦；分手后觉得更爱对方，没他就活不下去，这也不是爱，是不甘心。

try your best to be good to a person, for fear that if you do something wrong, the other person will not like you, which is not love, but please; after breaking up, you feel that you love the other person more, and you will not live without him, which is not love, is not reconciled.

22、迷茫，但从不逃避现实。怯弱，但必要时会拿出足够的勇气。虽然没有宏伟的理想，但每一天都在默默的努力。也许渺小，但值得自己骄傲。

confused, but never escapist. timid, but will show enough courage when necessary. although there is no grand ideal, but every day in the silent efforts. it may be small, but it's worth being proud of.

23、有时候，我们想笑，却必须要装出悲伤的神情；有时候，我们想哭，却必须要挤出僵硬的笑容。时间让我们看透，什么时候该收，什么时候该走。

sometimes, we want to laugh, but we have to pretend to be sad; sometimes, we want to cry, but we have to squeeze out a stiff smile. time allows us to see through, when to receive, when to leave.

24、愿你有好运气，如果没有，愿你在不幸中学会慈悲。愿你被很多人爱，如果没有，愿你在寂寞中学会宽容。愿你一生一世每天都可以睡到自然醒。

may you have good luck. if not, may you learn compassion in misfortune. may you be loved by many people, if not, may you learn tolerance in loneliness. may you sleep until you wake up every day of your life.

25、这世上根本不存在感同身受，只因你给的嬉笑太盛，无人在意你的心酸认真，所以别傻傻的摊开伤口向别人诉苦，这世上多的是撒盐的人。

there is no empathy in this world, just because you are too funny, no one cares about your heartache, so don't open the wound to complain to others, there are many salt sprinklers in this world.

26、感谢你赠我一场空欢喜，我们有过的美好回忆，让泪水染得模糊不清了。偶尔想起，记忆犹新，就像当初，我爱你，没有什么目的，只是爱你。

thank you for giving me a space of joy, we have a good memory, let the tears dye blurred. occasionally think of, remember still fresh, just like at the beginning, i love you, no purpose, just love you.

27、我曾经跨过山和大海，也穿过人山人海，我曾经拥有着的一切，转眼都飘散如烟，我曾经失落失望失掉所有方向，直到看见平凡才是唯一的答案。

i have crossed the mountains and the sea, but also through the mountains and the sea, i once had everything, in a blink of an eye are floating like smoke, i have lost disappointment lost all directions, until see the ordinary is the only answer.

28、我用了很多年证明我有多爱他，他却用同样的时间证明我有多傻，总有那么一个傻瓜，曾经为了一个人拒绝了所有人，最后却落得一无所有。

i used many years to prove how much i love him, but he used the same time to prove how stupid i am. there is always a fool who once rejected all people for one person and ended up with nothing.

29、我曾经以为，一个人的感情和依赖，从有到无会是一个渐渐消减的过程。但事实是，它会在某一个时刻，甚至某一个瞬间，突然地立减为零。

i used to think that a person's feelings and dependence, from have to no will be a process of gradual reduction. but the fact is, it will suddenly reduce to zero at a certain time, or even a certain moment.

30、对一个人最好的就是放下，无论再想念也不会去打扰，终有一天你会明白，原来失去比拥有更踏实，有些相见不如怀念，好久不见，不如不见。

the best thing for a person is to let go. no matter how much you miss it, you will never disturb it. one day you will understand that it's more practical to lose than to have it. it's better to miss someone when you meet him. it's better to not see him for a long time.