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你要想肆意放纵人生，就要先学会收敛，自律和克制，从控制熬夜争取早起，到控制食欲减轻体重，到控制各种不甘心，嫉妒心得失心等莫名其妙的妄念，都是一种尊重事实，遵循理智的成熟态度。

If you want to indulge your life wantonly, you must first learn convergence, self-discipline and restraint. From controlling staying up late to getting up early, to controlling appetite and losing weight, to controlling all kinds of inexplicable delusions such as unwilling, jealous and gain and loss, it is a mature attitude that respects facts and follows reason.

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两个人相处的最佳状态是：不嫉妒，不迎合，有话聊，不尴尬。

The best state for two people to get along with each other is: no jealousy, no pandering, talk, no embarrassment.

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有时候，我多么希望能有一双睿智的眼睛能够看穿我，能够明白了解我的一切，包括所有的斑斓和荒芜。

Sometimes, I wish I could have a pair of wise eyes to see through me and understand everything about me, including all the beauty and desolation.

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在我很小的时候，就明白了一个道理，不论是人还是事情，最好的东西往往只有表面薄薄的一层，这是我们的安身立命之所。

When I was very young, I learned a truth, whether it is people or things, the best things are often only a thin layer on the surface, which is where we live.

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这年春天，我再也不会望到满城的枯枝树桠日渐生长出嫩芽然后染绿成树荫。

In the spring of this year, I will never see the dead branches and branches of the city growing out gradually and then dyed green into shade.