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在这个世界上，无论你多么优秀，总有人喜欢你，也有人不喜欢你，所以不必讨好每一个人，也不必去在意其他人的眼光，对你而言，做好自己才最重要。

In this world, no matter how good you are, there are always people who like you and others who don't like you, so you don't have to please everyone, and you don't have to care about other people's eyes. For you, being yourself is the most important thing.

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精干的人，不在心情上计较，只在干事上仔细；无能的人，不在干事上仔细，只在心情上计较。把脾气拿出来，那叫天性；把脾气压回去，才叫本事。

Lean people don't care about their moods, they only care about their officers; Incompetent people don't care carefully about their affairs, but only care about their moods. Take out your temper, that is called nature; Put your temper back, that's skill.

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你想要的，岁月都会给你。可是，你不努力，你想要的，岁月凭什么给你。你要记住：你学过的每一样东西，你遭受的每一次苦难，都会在你一生中的某个时候派上用场。

Years will give you what you want. However, if you don't work hard, what do you want, and what will give you the years? You should remember that everything you have learned and every suffering you have suffered will come into use at some point in your life.

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很多社交关系，就是死于话多！别人稍一示好，你立马敞开心扉，掏心掏肺说上一大堆。你觉得这叫信任，别人却觉得负累。在社交的场合里，没人真正愿意听你长篇大论地谈自己。所以啊，少说几句，你更有魅力。

Many social relationships die from talking too much! When others show kindness, you immediately open your heart and talk a lot. You think this is called trust, but others feel burdened. In social situations, no one really wants to hear you talk about yourself at length. So, say less, you are more attractive.

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人有两个眼睛看世间、看万物、看他人，就是看不见自己；能见到别人过失，却看不见自己的缺点；能见到别人的贪欲，却看不见自己的吝啬；能看得到别人的邪奸，却看不见自己的愚痴。

People have two eyes to see the world, everything and others, but they can't see themselves; Can see other people's faults, but can't see their own shortcomings; I can see the greed of others, but I can't see my own stinginess; You can see other people's evil rape, but you can't see your own stupidity.