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你要逼自己优秀，然后骄傲的生活，余生还长，何必慌张，以后的你，会为自己所做的努力，而感到庆幸，别在最好的年纪选择了安逸。

You have to force yourself to be excellent, and then live a proud life. The rest of your life is long. Why panic? In the future, you will be glad for your efforts. Don't choose comfort at the best age.

人一辈子，要么有钱有安全感，要么有爱有幸福感。

In one's whole life, one has money and security, or love and happiness.

自我感动和愤怒一样，本质上都是无法面对自己的无能。

Like anger, self moving is essentially unable to face their own incompetence.

你每天夜不能寐的时候有没有想过，你爱的那个人已经开始打呼噜了，他的梦里没有你，醒了也不会爱你。

When you can't sleep every night, have you ever thought that the person you love has already started snoring, and he will not love you when he wakes up without you in his dream.

所有的坎坷都可以过，所担心的事情都会有好结果。

All the frustrations can pass, and all the things you worry about will come to a good end.

你连几点睡觉都控制不了，你还想控制人生。你的问题在于，你什么都懂，可你懒啊。

You can't even control when you go to bed. You want to control your life. Your problem is that you know everything, but you are lazy.

回首那些走过的路，每一步都走得好孤独，而学会孤独正是成长的必修课，所以，别慌，一步步走，只要通过了，这就是上天给的礼物。

Looking back on those roads, every step is very lonely, and learning to be lonely is a required course for growth. So, don't panic, step by step, as long as you pass, this is the gift from God.

当你感到难过的时候，不要诉苦给别人听，自己抬头望着天空吧，它那么大一定可以包容你所有的委屈。

When you feel sad, don't complain to others. Look up at the sky. It is so big that it can contain all your grievances.

我们最重要的不是去计较，真与伪，得与失，名与利，贵与贱，富与贫，而是如何好好地快乐度日，并从中发现生活的诗意。

The most important thing for us is not to care about the truth and falsehood, gain and loss, fame and profit, high and low, rich and poor, but how to live happily and find the poetic flavor of life.

多一点忍耐，就会少几次后悔。少几次翻脸，就多几个台阶。多几次听不见，就少几次庸人自扰。少撂几句狠话，就多一些余地。

More patience, less regret. A few less turns, a few more steps. If you can't hear more times, you'll be bothered less. Less harsh words, more room.

生命中有许多你不想做却不能不做的事，这就是责任；生命中有许多你想做却不能做的事，这就是命运。

In life, there are many things you don't want to do but can't do, which is responsibility; in life, there are many things you want to do but can't do, which is destiny.

自己坚定要走下去的路，做成的事，不妨迁就一下，这不叫妥协，而叫做生活。除此之外，对于其它种种，你不甩我，我也不甩你。这就叫性格。

If you are determined to go on and do something, you may as well give in. This is not compromise, but life. Besides, for other things, you don't dump me, and I don't dump you. It's called character.

在成功面前，戒骄戒躁学会谦恭；在委屈面前，宠辱不惊学会包容；在等待面前，泰然自若学会忍耐；在痛苦面前，浴火重生学会坚强。

In the face of success, guard against arrogance and impatience, learn humility; in the face of grievances, learn tolerance; in the face of waiting, learn patience calmly; in the face of pain, learn to be strong.

真正的内心强大，就是活在自己的世界里，而不是活在别人的眼中和嘴上。为人处事靠自己，背后评说由他人。 人生在世，无非是笑笑别人，然后再让别人笑笑自己。

The real inner strength is to live in your own world, not in other people's eyes and mouth. It's up to you to behave yourself, and it's up to others to comment behind your back. Life in the world, nothing more than smile at others, and then let others laugh at themselves.

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