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星辰无论是好是坏，都会成为不可磨灭的记忆，让我们更加懂得如何爱自己，爱别人。

星辰Whether it is good or bad, it will become an indelible memory, which will make us know how to love ourselves and others better.

星辰要知道，在过去的岁月里，他可能真的对你很重要。可是，在他没有出现的时候，那些年，就算你一个人，其实也过得很好，也没什么不好。

星辰You know, in the past years, he may be really important to you. However, in those years when he didn't show up, even if you were alone, you actually had a good life, and there was nothing wrong with it.

星辰其实男人对你的爱，最终的表达可以是两个字——舍得。

星辰In fact, the ultimate expression of a man's love for you can be two words-willing to give up.

星辰你只会觉得从现在开始，他是他，你是你，他过得怎么样，那是他的事，你过得好不好，那不需要他看，更不用指指点点。

星辰You will only think that from now on, he is him, you are you, how he is doing, that's his business, you don't need him to look at it, let alone point fingers.

星辰但是，不管是不是恐惧，因为你没那么喜欢，所以对未来没有信心或者明明喜欢，却还是对未来感到担忧。既然无法摆脱这种心态，不妨先接受自己。

星辰However, whether you are afraid or not, because you don't like it that much, you have no confidence in the future or obviously like it, but you are still worried about the future. Since you can't get rid of this mentality, you might as well accept yourself first.

星辰但是过了五十岁，你就能明显感觉到身体在一天天老去。

星辰But after the age of , you can obviously feel that your body is getting older day by day.

星辰爱你的人，哪怕是被动，矜持，没有安全感，也无法忍受根本不找你，不跟你见面。

星辰People who love you, even if they are passive, reserved and insecure, can't stand not looking for you or meeting you at all.