no.8

把错归咎于自己，并礼貌退场，把自己还给自己，把别人还给别人，让花成花，让树成树，从此山水一程，不再相逢，愿来生不见，不念，不欠。

Blame the fault on yourself, and politely exit, return yourself to yourself, return others to others, let the flowers become flowers, and let the trees become trees. From then on, the mountains and rivers will never meet again, and I hope I won't see, don't read, and don't owe in the next life.

终究只是陪你演了一场戏，你锻炼了演技，我却入了戏，当初发了疯的想，如今拼了命的忘，你从未入戏，我却赔上了自己。终究是不值得了。

After all, I just played a play with you. You trained your acting skills, but I entered the play. I was crazy at the beginning, but now I forget desperately that you never entered the play, but I lost myself. It's not worth it after all.

有人朝他扔鲜花，也有人朝他扔泥巴，他不接鲜花，也不在意泥巴，他用泥巴种起了鲜花。

Some people threw flowers at him, while others threw mud at him. He didn't accept flowers and didn't care about the mud. He planted flowers with mud.

如果将来我有女儿，我不会从小灌输女孩子要温柔，要善良，要懂事这类思想，这些看似美好的词，在我看来和道德绑架没什么两样。我会教她如何权衡利弊，做事之前想好得与失，先爱自己再爱别人，我要把她养成一个既世俗又浪漫的精明人。

If I have a daughter in the future, I will not instill the idea that girls should be gentle, kind and sensible since childhood. These seemingly beautiful words are no different from moral kidnapping in my opinion. I will teach her how to weigh the pros and cons, think about the gains and losses before doing things, love herself first and then others, and I will cultivate her into a worldly and romantic smart person.