2021.8.25

无论遇到多么讨厌的人也只是在告诉你，不要成为那样的人

No matter how annoying people are, they're just telling you, don't be that person

最好的状态是每天醒来面朝阳光，嘴角上扬，不羡慕谁，不讨好谁，静悄悄的努力，活成自己想要的模样

The best state is to wake up every day facing the sun, the corners of the mouth up, do not envy who, do not please who, quiet efforts, live into the appearance they want

你明明在生气，故意不理对方，半天才发现人家根本没在意，甚至根本不知道，原来你一直在，生无用功的闷气，然后他突然和你说话，稍微对你好一点，你就瞬间原谅了，开心的好像什么事儿都没发生过，甚至觉得自己错了

You are clearly angry, deliberately ignore each other, half a day only to find that the other people do not care about, even do not know, originally you have been, useless sulk, and then he suddenly talk to you, a little bit to you, you instantly forgive, happy as if nothing has happened, even feel that they are wrong

被偏爱的小朋友不用说对不起不被偏爱的小朋友说对不起也没用

The children who are favored don't have to say sorry and the children who are not favored don't have to say sorry

所谓的安全感就是：你睡醒会找我 忙完会告诉我 事事有回应 件件有着落 爱是宠溺是偏爱是首选是唯一

The so-called sense of security is: you will find me after you wake up busy will tell me everything has a response, love is spoil is preference is preferred is only

重要的人不需要时时刻刻靠聊天来维持关系.

Important people don't need to talk all the time to maintain a relationship.