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对别人的期许，会成为自己的失望；对别人的依赖，会成为自己的伤痛；对别人的试图占有，会成为自己的禁锢；与之相反，对别人的忍耐，会成为自己的安宁；对别人的放手，会成为自己的自由；对别人的付出，会成为自己的获得；对别人的怜悯，会成为对自己的宽恕。

Expectations for others will become their own disappointment; Dependence on others will become your own pain; Trying to possess others will become your own imprisonment; On the contrary, patience with others will become your own peace; Letting go of others will become your own freedom; Giving to others will become your own gain; Compassion for others will become forgiveness for yourself.

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人生根本没有那条“更好的路”，只有一条路，就是你选择的那条路。关键是，你要勇敢地走上去，而且要坚持走下去。人生如车，或长途，或短途；人生如戏，或喜，或悲。很多事，过去了，就注定成为故事；很多人离开了，就注定成为故人。生命中的故事，这些都是历练。

There is no "better road" in life, there is only one road, that is, the road you choose. The key is to go up bravely and keep going. Life is like a car, long distance or short distance; Life is like a play, happy or sad. Many things, after passing, are destined to become stories; When many people leave, they are destined to become old friends. Stories in life, these are all experiences.

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成长就是一遍遍的怀疑自己以前深信不疑的东西，然后又推翻下个阶段的自己，长出新的智慧和性情，带着无数的迷惘与不确定，坚定的走向下个阶段的自己。

Growing up means doubting what you once believed, then overthrowing yourself in the next stage, growing up new wisdom and temperament, and moving firmly towards yourself in the next stage with countless perplexities and uncertainties.