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凡是你想控制的，其实都控制了你。愿岁月锤炼你一副丰满的灵魂和清瘦的欲望。

Everything you want to control actually controls you. May the years temper your full soul and thin desire.

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每个人的人生里都会遇到一场措手不及的大雨，若你身陷雨中，愿有人为你撑伞；如果没有，也愿你有听雨的心情。

Everyone's life will encounter an unexpected heavy rain. If you are caught in the rain, I would like someone to hold an umbrella for you; If not, I hope you have the mood of listening to the rain.

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人生匆匆，讨厌的人就一笑而过，无须怀恨在心，保持一颗童心你会发现：没有解决不了的事，也没有过不去的坎。

Life is in a hurry, and people who hate it will laugh away, without holding a grudge. Keep a childlike innocence and you will find that there is nothing that can't be solved and there is no hurdle that can't be overcome.

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人的一生中总有一些难以言说的秘密，无法逆转的悔恨，无可企及的梦想以及难以忘怀的爱恋。

There are always some unspeakable secrets, irreversible regrets, unattainable dreams and unforgettable love in one's life.

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真正的善良，不是坐垫上那份虔诚，而是在生活细微处显示出对他人的尊重与关怀。积德不需人见行善自有天知。真正的善良，在物质层面解决别人困难，同时于精神层面照顾到对方自尊心。

True kindness is not piety on the cushion, but showing respect and care for others in the subtleties of life. You don't need to be seen to do good deeds. True kindness solves others' difficulties on the material level and takes care of each other's self-esteem on the spiritual level.

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有钱的人喜欢说“钱不是万能的”，长得好看的人喜欢说“长得好看有什么用”，瘦子喜欢说“其实胖一点好，健康”。他们只是随口说说，你却都认真地信了。

Rich people like to say "money is not everything", good-looking people like to say "what's the use of being good-looking", and thin people like to say "in fact, being fat is better and healthier". They just talked freely, but you believed them seriously.