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每个年龄都有每个年龄不同的烦恼。不要企图规避，装嫩或者装老，这些烦恼是人生给你的礼物，只有经历过，面对过，才能留下回味，拥有积淀。

Every age has its own troubles. Don't try to evade, act young or pretend to be old. These troubles are gifts given to you by life. Only when you have experienced and faced them can you leave aftertaste and accumulate.

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适当的放下，才会轻松；适当的留下，才会心安。放下：放下所有的冷漠与遗憾，放下所有的纠结与不足，放下浮躁的得失之心，因为，任凭你患得患失，一切皆不増不减。

It will be easy to put it down properly; Only when you stay properly will you feel at ease. Let go: Let go of all the MoMo and regrets, let go of all the entanglements and shortcomings, and let go of the impetuous gains and losses, because, let you be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, everything will not decrease.

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人是无法做到换位思考的，因为思想、经历、感官、全都不一样，就像我说大海很漂亮，你却说淹死过很多人。凡事要看淡，人生才平常，看开，看透一些，得失是常态。有些话，能不说就沉默，藏在心里更适合。

People can't think in perspective, because their thoughts, experiences and senses are all different. Just like I said the sea was beautiful, you said that many people drowned. Everything should be looked down on, and life will be normal. Look on the bright side and see through some things, and gain and loss are the norm. Some words, if you can't say them, are silent. It's better to hide them in your heart.

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人生，看透不如看淡，好事坏事，终将成为往事，只有保持良好的心态，才能坦然地面对生活中遇到的一切。

It's better to see through life than to look down on it. Good things and bad things will eventually become the past. Only by keeping a good attitude can we face everything we encounter in life calmly.