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36、每一个不懂爱旳人，都会遇到一个懂爱的人，然后经历一场撕心裂肺旳爱情，然后分开。后来，不懂爱的人慢慢懂了，懂爱旳人，却不敢再爱了。

everyone who doesn't know how to love will meet someone who knows how to love, and then experience a heartbreaking love, and then separate. later, people who don't understand love slowly understand, people who understand love, but dare not love again.

37、曾经我是一个任性的孩子，任性的以为你只属于我，我只属于你。谢谢你告诉我，这个世界上谁都不是谁的，我们终究只会，属于我们自己。

once i was a wayward child, wayward thought you only belong to me, i only belong to you. thank you for telling me that no one in the world belongs to us. we will belong to ourselves after all.

38、以前，我只在乎我在乎的人，现在我只在乎在乎我的人。友情如此，如果最后是失望，宁愿不要你开始给我的希望，失望多过希望，最终绝望。

before, i only care about the people i care about, now i only care about the people i care about. friendship is like this. if you are disappointed in the end, you would rather not give me hope. disappointment is more than hope, and finally despair.

39、把安全感寄托在别人身上难免患得患失，那种失望真的是一点一点累积下来的。有时候的热情就像泼在冰上的水，一不小心融了冰也凉了自己。

it's hard to avoid worrying about gain and loss if you trust your security in others. that disappointment really accumulates little by little. sometimes enthusiasm is like water splashed on the ice. if you melt the ice accidentally, you will cool yourself.

40、时间真的是这个世界上最好的跨度，让惨痛变得苍白，让执着的人选择离开，然后经历沧桑人来人往，你会明白，万般皆是命，半点不由人。

time is really the best span in the world, making the pain pale, letting the persistent people choose to leave, and then experiencing the vicissitudes of life, you will understand that everything is life, not by people at all.