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1:夜晚突如其来的难过差点要了我的命,我试着销声匿迹,结果真的无人问津,有些人站在那里就是别人的光,而我怎么努力也只是一颗黯淡的星星.

The sudden sadness of the night almost killed me, I tried to disappear, the results really no one cared, some people standing there is someone else's light, and how I try is just a dim star.

2:每个人的成长或许都会经历家人的不理解或不和睦.

不和睦的家庭,受伤最大的总是孩子.

对于已无法改变的家庭,或许我们能做的.

就是让父母在我们身下犯下的错误,留在我们这一代.

当我们成为父母时,让错误不要再轮回.

Everyone may grow up experiencing family incomprehension or disharmony.

In disharmonious families, it is always the children who get hurt the most.

For families that can't be changed, maybe we can

Is to let the parents in our lives made mistakes, stay in our generation

When we become parents, let the mistakes not repeat themselves.

3:后来终于明白,生活中的你为什么不招人待见了,因为不够虚伪,因为嘴不甜,不会拍马屁,不会睁着眼睛说瞎话.

Then finally understand, in the life why you are not welcome, because not enough hypocrisy, because the mouth is not sweet, will not flatter, will not lie with eyes open.

4:人对重要的东西,是不会随便对待的,绝大多数时候,你能感受到的冷淡,不在意,那都不是错觉.

People for important things, is not casually treated, most of the time, you can feel the cold, don't care, it is not an illusion.

5:固执的人往往都不幸福,因为他们非要把失望攒够了才肯开始新的生活,而聪明的人,察觉到一点不对劲就准备撤退了.

Stubborn people are often unhappy, because they have to be disappointed enough to start a new life, while smart people, sense something is wrong and ready to retreat.

6:我不大度,这一辈子都不能把自己劝明白,因为有些人有些事是我一辈子都过不去的坎,那种恨之入骨的恨,到死都不能释怀.

I am not generous, this life can not persuade myself to understand, because some people and some things are my life can not go through the obstacle, that kind of hate, to death can not let go.

7:突然明白了一个道理,来我们都不是为了自己而活,都是为了生我们的人和我们生的人而活,也许这就是轮回.

Suddenly understand a truth, originally we are not to live for their own, are born to our people and we live, perhaps this is reincarnation.

8:如果你当初告诉我,我们不会有结果,我也没必要陷得那么深你转身就回到正常生活,而我却连回去的路都找不到.

If you'd told me it wouldn't work out, I wouldn't have gotten into this mess You turn around and go back to your normal life, and I can't even find my way back.

9:突如其来的丧,是平时日积月累起来的,那些难以消耗的不开心,负面情绪,在这一刻通通爆发出来并且放大了无数倍.

Sudden mourning, is usually accumulated over a long period of time, those difficult to consume the unhappy, negative emotions, at this moment all burst out and magnified countless times.

10:有时候分手真的不用发生什么惊天大事,对于女生来说,从来都只是细节里的爱情,你渐渐不再耐烦的语气,你越挂越快的电话,你越回越少的短信,它们慢慢累积,最后在某个你不在意的小小细节里,感情分崩离析,爱是累积来的,不爱也是.

Sometimes really don't have to break up what event, for girls, never just love is in the details, you are no longer a hardness of tone, the more you hang the faster, the less the more you back to the text, they slowly accumulated, and finally in the small details of someone you don't mind, emotion apart, love is accumulated, not love too.

11:人就这么奇怪,受了天大的苦都不吭一声,听到安慰的话却泣不成声,那些硬生生慜回去的眼泪败给了一句简单的安慰.

It is so strange that you cannot speak when you are suffering. You cannot weep when you hear the soothing words that you are dying in. Those hard tears that are born in time are turned to a simple consolation.

12:人要有自知之明,不要总是指责别人如何不好,其实,有些人就是乌鸦站在猪背上,只看到别人的颜色,却不知道自己黑.

People should have self-knowledge, do not always blame others how bad, in fact, some people are crows standing on the back of pigs, only to see the color of others, but do not know their own black.