第三十九章

星期三 听写 The American Way of Marriage 1:36AM-2:13AM

“I do” to Americans those two words carry great meaning, they can even change your life. Especially if you say them in your own wedding. Making wedding vows is like signing a contract. Now Americans do not really think marriage is a business deal. But marriage serious business. It all begins with the engagement. Traditionally a young man asks the father of his sweetheart for permission to marry her. If the father agrees, the man later proposes to her. Often he tries to surprise her by popping the question in a romantic way. Sometimes the couple just decides together that the time is right to get married. A man usually give his fiancee a diamond ring as a symbol of their engagement. They may be engaged for weeks, months or even years. As a big day approaches, (听不出来) showers, bachelor parties provide many useful gifts. Today many couples also receive couselling（单词有误） during their engagement. This prepares them for the challenges of marriage life.

总结：学习切记要戒骄戒躁，学习的目的是修心，修身，一个人如果不知道自己想去哪里，那么越努力，越迷茫，所以定好目标，继续前进，这是因为学习使人明智，不学习的话，不可慌慌终日，自己也不知道自己在干嘛，每天都学习一点点，这是一个很好的办法，一个人走得更快，一群人走得更远，慢慢来，一切都是来得及的，学习如果太心急，那么就吃不了热豆腐了。加油。

每天都学习着，进步虽然有点慢，但是好在自己努力了，这样就很好的，加油。姚天成想到这个时候，感觉自己满满的成就感啊，看来真得是学不可以已啊。