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累过，扛过，才知道生活的不易。哭过，笑过，才明白感情的意义。伤过，痛过，才看清人心的假意。吃过一次亏，就懂得了防备；上过一次当，就学会了深沉；受过一次伤，就做到了冷漠。

Tired, carried, just know that life is not easy. Cry and laugh before you understand the meaning of feelings. It's not until you've been hurt or hurt that you can see the hypocrisy of people's hearts. After eating a loss, you know how to guard against it; Once you were fooled, you learned to be deep; Once you were hurt, you were indifferent.

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生活似酒，饮者不同，感受不同， 有的人，豪饮不醉，有的人，浅尝而醉， 一样的酒精，不一样的感情，酒虽同，人不同；岁月似茶，品者不一，体会不一， 有的人，细细品味，慢慢斟酌；有的人，举杯而饮，一饮而尽。一样的茶，不一样的心，茶虽同，情不同。

Life is like wine, with different drinkers and different feelings. Some people are not drunk after binge drinking, while others are drunk after a shallow taste. They have the same alcohol and different feelings. Although the wine is the same, people are different. Time is like tea, with different tastes and experiences. Some people savor it carefully and consider it slowly. Some people drink in one gulp. The same tea, different hearts, the same tea, but different feelings.

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与人交往要守住态度，值得的我一定真心相待不辜负，不值得的一笑而过不再多说。没有必要也没有可能与所有人成为好朋友，要做一个有原则的人，不亏待每一份热情，也绝不讨好任何的冷漠。

Keep an attitude when dealing with people. I will treat you sincerely if it is worth it, and laugh it off if it is not worth it. It is not necessary and impossible to be good friends with everyone. Be a principled person, not to be unkind to every enthusiasm, and never to please any indifference.