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生活就该踏踏实实的走，人的成长，在于学习，也在于经历。人的修养，在于领悟，也在于静修。人的幸福，在于得到，也在于放下。人生秘诀，在于别人，也在于自己。

Life should be down-to-earth, and people's growth lies in learning and experience. People's cultivation lies in understanding and retreat. People's happiness lies in getting and letting go. The secret of life lies in others as well as in yourself.

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你不清楚为什么而忙，就会忙不到点子上而浪费时光。你没有大事可做，就会在小事上纠缠不休而忘了前行。你心中没有梦想，就会把蝇头小利当成追逐的对象。

If you don't know why you are busy, you will be too busy to get to the point and waste your time. If you don't have big things to do, you will dwell on small things and forget to move forward. If you don't have a dream in your heart, you will take petty profit as the object of pursuit.

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有一点压力，就感觉天塌下来了；有一点不开心，就觉得自己是世上最可怜的人。你如此脆弱，都是曾经有人宠溺，有人替你撑着，有人替你坚强。累了，蹲下来抱抱自己，告诉自己：也不过如此，我们还可继续前进。

With a little pressure, I feel that the sky is falling; If you are a little unhappy, you feel that you are the poorest person in the world. You are so fragile that someone once spoiled you, someone supported you, and someone strengthened you. Tired, crouch down and hug yourself, telling yourself: That's all, we can move on.

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你有没有发现，做人太实在了，有时候真的没有好下场，所以你要记住，以后不要太辛苦，也不要太迁就，更不要太实在，你总是什么事情都为别人着想，反而会委屈了你自己，而当时间久了，那些人也会把你的所有付出，都当成理所应当，总有一天你真的累了，你会发现又有谁会真正在乎你呢？凡事都要讲个分寸，适度就好！

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成年人一定要有两个圈子，一个叫生活圈，一个叫成长圈。生活圈给我们舒适感安全感，成长圈决定我们的社会价值。追逐成长圈，才能过好生活圈。

Adults must have two circles, one is called life circle and the other is called growth circle. Life circle gives us a sense of comfort and security, while growth circle determines our social value. Pursuing the growth circle can lead a good life circle.

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遇见了形形色色的人之后，你才知道，原来世界上除了父母不会有人掏心掏肺对你，不会有人无条件完全信任你，也不会有人一直对你好，你早该明白，天会黑、人会变，人生那么长，路那么远，你只能靠自己，别无他选。

After meeting all kinds of people, you realize that no one in the world will be honest with you except parents, no one will trust you unconditionally and completely, and no one will always be kind to you. You should have understood that it will be dark, people will change, life will be so long, and the road will be so far away. You can only rely on yourself and have no other choice.