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人生的风景，多姿多彩。做人要有一颗平常心，肤浅的羡慕，无聊的攀比，笨拙的效仿，只会让自己整天活在他人的影子里面。我们应当认清自己，找到属于自己的位置，走自己的道路，过自己的生活。

The scenery of life is colorful. Being a man should have a normal heart, superficial envy, boring comparison and clumsy imitation, which will only make him live in the shadow of others all day. We should recognize ourselves, find our own place, follow our own path and live our own life.

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无论你在哪个年龄段，我想我们都应该学会对身边的人温柔一些，至少说出来的话不要给别人添堵，因为你可能不知道，语言真的有一种神奇的力量，它会让你爱的人爱你，也会让爱你的人决定离开你。

No matter what age you are, I think we should learn to be gentle with the people around us, at least don't add to others, because you may not know that language really has a magical power, which will make your loved ones love you and make them decide to leave you.

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不要以为喝矿泉水的都是没钱的，不要以为不写作业的都是坏学生，不要以为拿着打火机就是在吸烟，不要以为整天都笑的人是心情真好，不要有太多的以为，你看到的，或许只是别人选择让你看到的。

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有些事，尽力不成，无奈，只好走开；有些人，苦等不来，无缘，只好离开；有些情，苦恋不明，无果，只好割舍。处不住的，只能遗弃；盼不来的，只能放弃；留不住的，只能终止。人生，就是这样，选择不易，放弃艰难。人生之苦，苦在选择，人生之难，难在放弃。

There are some things, I can't do my best, I have no choice but to go away; Some people, who can't wait, have no chance and have to leave; Some feelings, loved one unknown, fruitless, had to give up. If you can't stand it, you can only abandon it; If you can't hope for it, you can only give up; Can't stay, can only be terminated. Life is like this. It is not easy to choose, but difficult to give up. The bitterness of life lies in choosing, and the difficulty of life lies in giving up.