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相遇总是猝不及防，而离别多是蓄谋已久，总有一些人会慢慢淡出你的生活，你要学会接受而不是怀念。

Meeting is always caught off guard, while parting is always planned for a long time. Some people will fade out of your life slowly. You should learn to accept it instead of miss it.

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多数的错失，是因为不坚持，不努力，不挽留，然后催眠自己说一切都是命运。

Most mistakes are due to not persisting, not working hard, not retaining, and then hypnotizing myself into saying that everything is fate.

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趁孤单让自己优秀起来，不仅是对自己负责，也是给未来那个人一个好的交代。

Taking advantage of loneliness to make yourself better is not only responsible for yourself, but also a good explanation for the future person.

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别老想着“以后还来得及”，有一日你会发现，有的人，有些事，真的会来不及。总感觉什么事都“不着急”，最后都变成“来不及”。

Don't always think about "there is still time in the future", one day you will find that some people and some things are really too late. I always feel that everything is "in no hurry", and finally it becomes "too late".

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简单的事，想得深就复杂了，复杂的事，看得淡就简单了，一些事笑笑就好，别太认真，一些人看看就行，无需在乎。

Simple things are complicated if you think deeply, and complicated things are simple if you look at them lightly. It is good to smile at some things. Don't take them too seriously. Some people just look at them and don't care.

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有些伤痕，划在手上，愈合后就成了往事；有些伤痕，划在心上，哪怕划得很轻，也会留驻于心。

Some scars are scratched on the hands and become a thing of the past after healing; Some scars are scratched in the heart, even if they are lightly scratched, they will remain in the heart.

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做个平淡不平庸的人，不乱于心，不困于情。一身正气，浪荡自由。不谈亏欠，不负遇见。

Be a plain and mediocre person, don't be confused with your heart, and don't be trapped in feelings. Being upright and free. Don't talk about debt, and live up to it.

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真实人生中，我们往往在大势已定无可更改时，才迟迟进场，却又在胜败未分的混沌中，提早离席。

In real life, when the general trend has been fixed, we often enter the market slowly, but we leave early in the chaos of winning and losing.