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很多事，过去了，很多人，离开了，时间久能生情，时间久了也许会淡漠。不要把自己的伤口揭开给别人看，世上多的不是医师，而是撒盐的人。

Many things have passed, and many people have left. After a long time, they will feel affection, but after a long time, they may be indifferent. Don't open your wounds to others. There are many people in the world who sprinkle salt instead of doctors.

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有些事不管我们愿意不愿意，都要发生，有些人不论我们喜欢不喜欢，都要面对。人生中遇到的所有的事，所有的人，都不是以我们的意志为转移。

Some things will happen whether we like it or not, and some people will face it whether we like it or not. Everything we meet in life, all people, is not transferred by our will.

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一粒种子，可以温柔地躺在泥土里，也可以努力破土而出。从坚硬的泥土里长出花来，欣欣向荣，才是一种美好的存在。

A seed can lie gently in the soil, or try to break out of it. Flowers grow out of hard soil and flourish, which is a beautiful existence.

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这是你生命中最好的年纪，身体健康，亲人安在，现世安稳，可惜你意识不到，因为一点小事心情就一团糟。

This is the best age in your life. You are healthy, your relatives are safe, and the world is stable. Unfortunately, you don't realize it, because you are in a mess for a little thing.

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我不明白为什么要那么在意别人的看法，评头论足只是无聊人的消遣，何必看得如临大敌，如果你不吃别人家的饭，就别太把别人的话放在心上。

I don't understand why we should care so much about other people's opinions. It's just a pastime for boring people. Why should we look at others? If you don't eat other people's meals, don't take other people's words too seriously.