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从前，生活要有心才能拥有；现在，生活要有钱才能拥有。这是我们现代人最大的悲哀。

Once upon a time, life had to be intentional to have it; Now, life needs money to be owned. This is the greatest sorrow of modern people.

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觉得自己总碰不到美好的人和事，并不是别人眼瞎，老天故意整你，恰恰是因为你不够好，他们都在躲你。

I feel that I can't always meet beautiful people and things. It's not that others are blind. God deliberately messed with you. It's precisely because you are not good enough that they are avoiding you.

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总要等到过了很久，总要等退无可退，才知道我们曾亲手舍弃的东西，在后来的日子里，再也遇不到了。

We have to wait for a long time, and we have to wait until we can't retreat, and then we know that what we gave up with our own hands will never be met again in the later days.

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带着期望等待，日子会变得格外漫长，带着期望努力，日子则格外地有意义。

Wait with expectation, the days will become extraordinarily long. Work hard with expectation, and the days will be extraordinarily meaningful.

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改天是明天，下次是每一次，以后是以后的每一天。

Another day is tomorrow, next time is every time, and later is every day in the future.

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一双鞋，刚买的时候蹭上一点灰都要蹲下来擦干净，穿久之后即使被人踩一脚可能也很少低头。人大抵都是如此，不论对物还是对情。

A pair of shoes should be squatted down to clean when they are rubbed with a little dust when they are just bought, and they may rarely bow their heads even if they are trampled on for a long time. People are generally so, no matter for things or feelings.

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太努力去维护的关系，只会适得其反。

Trying too hard to maintain the relationship will only backfire.